How can we hide love and express hatred so openly? Do we really see love as a sign of weakness?
Don’t get me wrong.I am not only talking about our typical romantic love.No matter what form it is when it comes to expressing our love we are bit hesitant.
Just think about it.How many of us call our parents just to let them know we miss them or sending a text to our friends that elucidates their importance in our life.I am pretty sure most of us will say no to these questions.I just started to wonder why?Then I came to a conclusion that we are afraid of getting hurt.
When we love a person we expect something in return from them.No matter how much we deny it we expect the least bit of care from their side.When we failed to receive it, we get hurt.but hate, on the other hand, brings power.When you hate someone you have no expectation to be hated or loved back in return.So it’s naturally easy to express hatred.
But let me tell you one thing.Love is not a sign of weakness.But on the contrary, it’s the bravest act of all.Indeed hatred makes you strong but it consumes your soul as fuel.Sooner or later it will make you weaker.But Love enlightens your soul.It makes you and everyone in your surrounding happy.
“Spread unconditional love everywhere even if you get back nothing in return”.This is an imperfect world but sadly, it’s the only one we have got.
Be Kind. Do not let the world make you hard. Do not let pain make you hate. Do not let the bitterness steal your sweetness.
Love everyone, not for themselves but for yourself.The only way you can find true happiness is making others smile. 🙂
People don’t care how much you love them, they only care how much they love you.
So don’t ever show the world your true feelings coz nobody will respect.NOBODY WILL EVER.Always hide them inside your heart and keep smiling.Don’t try to show your caring on someone who doesn’t value them.Don’t shed tears for someone who doesn’t know the value of it.you can’t expect people feel the same way you feel about them.and don’t bother to explain it to them, coz the more you try to explain the more emotional you will become.Trust me, the world will forgive even a murderer or rapist, not someone who is too emotional.Just accept the fact that not everybody come in your life to stay.Someone comes and teaches a lesson and then leave.Accept the reality.It will set you freePeople don’t care how much you love them, they only care how much they love you.
So don’t ever show the world your true feelings coz nobody will respect.NOBODY WILL EVER.Always hide them inside your heart and keep smiling.Don’t try to show your caring on someone who doesn’t value them.Don’t shed tears for someone who doesn’t know the value of it.you can’t expect people feel the same way you feel about them.and don’t bother to explain it to them, coz the more you try to explain the more emotional you will become.Trust me, the world will forgive even a murderer or rapist, not someone who is too emotional.Just accept the fact that not everybody come in your life to stay.Someone comes and teaches a lesson and then leave.Accept the reality.It will set you free.Don’t attach yourself to people or emotions.
This is what a broken heart taught me……
Let me start with a story this time.
An old father and his young son were sitting on the sofa and watching out.They saw a crow sitting on a tree.They father asked his son what was that bird and his son replied it was a crow.A few minutes later he asked the same question.His son answered with a bit of irritation.Then again he asked the same question his son replied with anger.He asked the same question fourth time.His son lost his patience and shouted at his father for asking the same question again and again and left the room.Then his mother came and handed over his father’s diary to him and asked him read that page.The line written on that page is
“Today I was sitting under a tree with my little child.A crow came and sit on the branch of the tree.My son asked me what was that I answered He kept asking the same question 19 times I answered him patiently.I didn’t feel irritation rather I fell in love with his innocence ”
Like the son mentioned in the above story, we usually forget how much our parents sacrificed for us.
They brought us into the world.they fed us.they protected us.they helped with our education.they supported us when we were down.They cheered us when we were sad.They are the reason for our very own existence.
But what are we giving back in return?
Hurt,Pain and disappionment.Correct ????
It’s an absolute mistake.Without them we won’t be in the same position, we are now.They faced all the pains and sorrows just to raise you up.They could have just given up everything and enjoyed but they didn’t.They showed their selfless love for you.Show some gratitude.
They showed their selfless love for you.Show some gratitude.
Just make sure you love them the same way they did.Show them your true love.Speak with kind words even if they are wrong.That is the only way you came pay back what you owe them..
People say “Love hurts“. Seriously, does it ??
Most of us will say yes, but
I beg to differ.I would say
Love doesn’t hurt, Loving the wrong one does.
Stop expecting too much from your partner.It’s the main reason to get hurt.Instead of expecting too much if you learn to accept the way she/he is, your life will become beautiful.
If you love her, Love her as a whole..not some better attributes of her.
Not just her perfect hairstyles, but also her wind blew messy hairs.
Not just her the brightest halls of her heart, But also the Darkest corner of her soul.
Not just her body, But also with her gorgeous soul.
Not just with her big achievements, but also with her admiration for cute little things like Sound of a sparrow, Song of the rain, Sight of the Rainbow, Smell of the New book etc,…
Not Just with her Mascaraed Eyes, but also with her teary red eyes,
Not just with the Independent women you see daily, but also with the Innocent little child hidden inside her heart….
Love her the way she is, Not the way, you want her to be….
Happy Valentine’s day Folks…