How can we hide love and express hatred so openly? Do we really see love as a sign of weakness?
Don’t get me wrong.I am not only talking about our typical romantic love.No matter what form it is when it comes to expressing our love we are bit hesitant.
Just think about it.How many of us call our parents just to let them know we miss them or sending a text to our friends that elucidates their importance in our life.I am pretty sure most of us will say no to these questions.I just started to wonder why?Then I came to a conclusion that we are afraid of getting hurt.
When we love a person we expect something in return from them.No matter how much we deny it we expect the least bit of care from their side.When we failed to receive it, we get hurt.but hate, on the other hand, brings power.When you hate someone you have no expectation to be hated or loved back in return.So it’s naturally easy to express hatred.
But let me tell you one thing.Love is not a sign of weakness.But on the contrary, it’s the bravest act of all.Indeed hatred makes you strong but it consumes your soul as fuel.Sooner or later it will make you weaker.But Love enlightens your soul.It makes you and everyone in your surrounding happy.
“Spread unconditional love everywhere even if you get back nothing in return”.This is an imperfect world but sadly, it’s the only one we have got.
Be Kind. Do not let the world make you hard. Do not let pain make you hate. Do not let the bitterness steal your sweetness.
Love everyone, not for themselves but for yourself.The only way you can find true happiness is making others smile. 🙂
People don’t care how much you love them, they only care how much they love you.
So don’t ever show the world your true feelings coz nobody will respect.NOBODY WILL EVER.Always hide them inside your heart and keep smiling.Don’t try to show your caring on someone who doesn’t value them.Don’t shed tears for someone who doesn’t know the value of it.you can’t expect people feel the same way you feel about them.and don’t bother to explain it to them, coz the more you try to explain the more emotional you will become.Trust me, the world will forgive even a murderer or rapist, not someone who is too emotional.Just accept the fact that not everybody come in your life to stay.Someone comes and teaches a lesson and then leave.Accept the reality.It will set you freePeople don’t care how much you love them, they only care how much they love you.
So don’t ever show the world your true feelings coz nobody will respect.NOBODY WILL EVER.Always hide them inside your heart and keep smiling.Don’t try to show your caring on someone who doesn’t value them.Don’t shed tears for someone who doesn’t know the value of it.you can’t expect people feel the same way you feel about them.and don’t bother to explain it to them, coz the more you try to explain the more emotional you will become.Trust me, the world will forgive even a murderer or rapist, not someone who is too emotional.Just accept the fact that not everybody come in your life to stay.Someone comes and teaches a lesson and then leave.Accept the reality.It will set you free.Don’t attach yourself to people or emotions.
This is what a broken heart taught me……
First of all, Happy Women’s day to all the women out there.
On this special day, I would like to thank every single woman in my life.You people are pretty awesome.Thank you for making my life happy.
Second, I am not gonna talk about any individual person I know in this post.If I do it, this post will pretty much end up praising a single person.
So what do I wanna say?
Pretty Simple.You are neither inferior nor superior to anyone.Don’t let anyone make you feel bad.If people see you through their tiny eyes, they will think you are less than them.Don’t listen to those stupid’s words.Know your value even if the whole world doesn’t.Be proud of what you are.Show the whole world what you are capable of.
Equality starts at the end of dependency.
Don’t play yourself, victims.Don’t make yourself look pitiful.Don’t point hand.Be the independent woman.If you want something, be ready to fight for it.Don’t think some else will do it for you.As long as you are depending on somebody else, you will not be treated equally.If you want something, stand up and swing the sword.fight for it.Get that damn thing done.That is what makes you are true independent women.
Don’t look for a knight, Look for a sword.
Don’t spread hatred.Show kindness to everyone around you.Be a woman with the heart of a warrior and soul of an angel.if people tries to break you up, pick all your pieces and come back even stronger.show those morons what you are.
Don’t be afraid of being alone.One day someone will love you the way are.wait for it.
Don’t be a woman who needs a man.Be an independent woman that every man needs.
We are living in a world full of Instagram Filters and Photo editing applications.We judge people by their external manifestations.I don’t know how many educational or utility applications you have in our mobiles but I am pretty sure you have at least one photo editing application in our mobile.
I won’t blame you.The world is obsessed with beauty.Let me tell you one small story.
It’s a story about a balloon seller and a small kid.Some of you might have heard it.The balloon seller was selling various colours of helium filled balloons.Whenever the business was slow, He would release a helium-filled balloon which soared towards the cloud.It got the kids attention and they urged their parents to get them one.A little kid was observing him for a long time.Balloon seller released green, blue and orange colour balloons.Seeing all of the balloons going up he went to the balloon seller and asked If you release the white balloon, Will that also go up like others? The balloon seller replied, Kid, It’s not Colour of the balloon that matters.It’s what inside it that makes it rise….
It’s not the just truth of balloon, It’s the truth of people too.It’s not the appearance, It’s what inside us that takes us to next level.
Real beauty is not about external appearance.It is all about how you cultivate your talent.Physical appearance will fade off in some months or years.But your talent will stay with you all your lifetime.
Looks will fetch you attention but Talent will get you Respect..
Let’s keep this short and simple.
A person who knows what they want in their and works for it to become reality rather than relying on miracles is Independent.
If you are the boy/girl who works hard to get the job you always wanted rather than marrying a rich guy and gets settled in life, You are independent.
Don’t ask someone else to fight your own battle…
I will define the word Entrepreneur in a simple term.
An entrepreneur is a person who is ready to work 16 hours a day for his own dream than 8 hours a day for somebody else’s dream.
We are the people who wanna change the world.We are the people who love what we do.We are the people who are ready to give up our comfortable life for our dream.We are the people who keep trying till succeeding. We are the people who love to play with uncertainty.we are the people who jump the cliff and build the plane on our way down.We are the people who are keen to learn different things than keep doing the same things.we are the people who seek the solutions rather whining about the problem.we are the people.
We are the people who will build their own empire…We WILLLL…
Alexander the Great..
The Great king of Macedonia is known as the best military general of all time (well, arguably )
Do you know why?
Because he was passionate. Maybe.
Becuase he was courageous. Maybe.
Becuase he came up with new tactics. Maybe.
But I would say he was a true leader.When other kings stood safely at the back of their army and issued orders.Alexander stood in the front line and led it like an anger lion.The made him King of the whole world (dramatically speaking)
That is the difference between a true leader and a boss.A leader leads his team from the front where bosses just issue orders.
True leaders share credits of victory with his team and take responsibility for the loss.Bosses take all the credits of victory and blame others for the loss.
True Leaders give freedom to his team.Where a boss expects everybody should be under his/her control.
I reckon Steve Jobs words here…
it doesn’t make sense to hire smart people and tell them what to do; we hire smart people so they can tell us what to do.
This attitude is what made apple a billion dollar company.Steve was clear on his vision. but he open-heartedly welcomed innovative ideas.If Steve would have thought of different, maybe Android would have been ruling the world entirely.(They kinda do still )
Lead from the front and share credits with your Team.Be a Leader
So you clearly understood Darwinism now and you strongly believe human are evolved from Apes.you think science can answer every question. Correct ?
It doesn’t mean you should hurt your parents who believe God created this world.
You are so fluent in English.It doesn’t mean you should not speak in your mother tongue.
“Culture has been defined in a number of ways, but most simply, as the learned and shared behaviour of a community of interacting human beings”
Your culture is your way of life.It defines what you are.
Remember you started with nothing.you learn how to live and survive in this world from your family, friends and surroundings .once you learn to reason with things you start to believe you don’t belong to that culture.It’s okay to feel different from others but just make sure your way of living doesn’t hurt anyone’s feelings
The moment you give up your principles, and your values, you are dead, your culture is dead, your civilisation is dead. Period. – Oriana Fallaci
Teach your kids what is our true culture.Teach them where you started and why are here.
There is no shame in accepting who you really are…
Do you think you are a good person ??
I’m sure you’d have said yes.now the next question
Do you fight for right thing even if it doesn’t give you anything?
If it’s an honest answer, I am sure most of the people will say No to this question.
Being a helpful person for yourself & your family alone is not being a Good person.It’s being Selfish.
Don’t get me wrong, It’s okay to be selfish.But everything has its limits.but don’t put yourself in the first place when whole mankind is at stake.
Trust me doing the right thing is really easy.It’s what your inner heart says.Listen to it.Do what it says. you may think you get nothing in return. But you are getting something in return that is called satisfaction.
No matter how much you are willing to pay you won’t get the satisfaction of doing the right thing.
Stand up and do the Right thing..No matter what.